If you want a great life, think about this: Right now what significant problem, more than any other, do you not want to look at or deal with? Are you unhappy in your marriage or relationships, financially insecure, working at an unfulfilling job, neglecting your health, or struggling with your kids or parents? Generally, the…
honesty
To a large extent, your virtues define who you are and what your life is like. Your ability to be honest, compassionate and never give up, for example, greatly impact how you interact with the world and how the world interacts with you. Are some virtues more significant than others? I believe one virtue lays…
Perhaps the most important question you can ask yourself about your marriage or significant love relationship is this – does it feel safe? Is it a soft place to land? Is it a place where you can let down your defenses and be exactly who you are? Do you feel supported and heard in nearly…
Why do romantic or love relationships, including marriage, fail? Here’s one big reason: lack of honesty. People are not honest about who they are, what they want or what they need. As a result, the relationship is built on a shaky foundation, rather than a solid one. Honesty is the backbone of living life well…
My marriage was falling apart long before I was willing to look at the fact that my marriage was falling apart. I didn’t want to look. I had decided that my children would never experience that nasty thing called divorce. I had decided that my kids would get the fairy tale ending, the kind that…